MANAGING DIFFICULT PEOPLE
As an OH&S issue for PMOs
Dealing with difficult people, like
dealing with dangerous dogs, is an issue of special interest to
PMOs.
In preparing this next section, we
sought the advice of a consultant psychologist in Townsville,
Jocelyn Clayton, who specialises in the field of work-related
counselling. Dealing with difficult people is a stressful business
and stress management is an OH&S issue.
Why are people difficult?
There are lots of reasons why some
people are difficult to deal with. It stands to reason that if
PMOs can understand whatís going on these cases, it will be
easier for them to deal with the situations that arise. Some of
these factors are:
1. personality-based
factors, such
as:
ï learning history
ï low expectations
ï displaced anger
ï poor communication skills
ï dependency needs
2. mental
health factors caused
by mental disorders or drug/alcohol influence, such as:
ï distorted thinking
ï inability to respond to logical
reasoning
ï emotional disturbances
ï confusion and memory loss
ï unpredictable reactions
3. environmental
factors, such as:
ï unfamiliarity with the
language used
ï unfamiliarity with process used
ï nonfunctional literacy
For further information and
examples, click to see:
ï More about reasons why people
are difficult
Difficult people: an acute MPM problem
In MPM, these difficult-people
problems can be unusually acute.
PMOs comment that dealing with the
public is often like being in a dream; nothing seems quite as it
should be. Most PMOs will be familiar with situations in which,
for example, a dog has bitten somebody right there in front of the
owner. Yet the owner will say sincerely: ëHe wonít bite
anybody; he never has.í
Another example is the sort of
person who absolutely hates the neighbourís dog defecating on
their front lawn, but canít understand whatís wrong with
letting their own 16 cats roam the neighbourhood urinating on
everybodyís doorstep.
There is something about MPM and
the processes of pet regulation that seems to arouse irrational
reactions in people with the slightest provocation. In Chapter 2
we put forward the following possible reasons for this shortfuse
effect:
ï the depriving face of pet
regulation
Peopleís sense of entitlement
seems to be easily aroused when pets are the focus of comment.1
ï the emotionality of the
pet-owner link
Most owners feel very close to
their pets2
and this clouds their judgement.
ï the personality extension
effect of pets
Many owners see their pets as
extensions of themselves.3
Slights against the pets are slights against the owner.
These three reasons do not stand
independently; each is linked to the others.
Whatever the reasons, there are
deep currents in the interactions PMOs have with pet owners in the
course of their day-to-day duty. Abuse, both verbal and physical
is not particularly uncommon, even when the issue may be as simple
as dealing with an unregistered dog incident.
It stands to reason that PMOs who
are given support and training will be better able to manage
difficult people. The alternative is bleak. If dealing with
residents is too difficult for most PMOs, they will tend to avoid
the tough situations. Then as word gets around, MPM will start
going backwards.
Approach to the difficult customer in MPM
When dealing with a person who is
showing signs of aggression arousal, PMOs need to be calm and
smart. Defusing the aggression keeps the stress levels down, and
also increases the chance that the MPM task will be completed.
Standard assertiveness techniques
apply to any of these difficult-people situations.
PMOs can also use a number of other
related techniques to defuse aggression:
ï understanding
ï cool-headedness
ï listening1
ï receiving the anger
ï distinguishing the facts
ï being flexible
For further information, click to
see:
ï More about assertiveness
How to go about refusing requests
PMOs canít afford to seem
uncertain. But people at fault will often want some kind of
concession. In most cases there is no room for concessions. Then
it is the PMOís job is to be fair but firm. For example, if a
caution has already been given, and the same situation occurs
again, a PMO should calmly move on to the next step in the
procedure, perhaps an infringement notice.
Here are a number of suggestions
for refusing requests:
ï short replies
ï explanations if you want to
ï avoiding ëI canít.í
ï taking time
ï apologising
ï acknowledging the person who
makes the request
For further information, click to
see:
ï More about refusing requests
How to deal with a close-out situation
Sometimes the person who the PMO is
dealing with categorically refuses to cooperate in any way. This
may involve getting the assistance of other council officers or
even the police. If need be, it may also involve obtaining court
warrants of authority and even arrest. But provided the PMO has
sufficient evidence, and provided the PMO is authorised to conduct
the task, the task should always be completed.
In Queensland, for example, Chapter
11, Parts 2 and 5 of The Local Government Act 1993 deal
specifically with the powers that authorised council officers have
to allow them to do their jobs when obstructed by the actions of
difficult customers. These include:
ï calling for police assistance
ï issuing infringement notices
ï investigating offences
ï monitoring authorisations,
notices and processing applications
ï approving inspection programs
ï seizing of dangerous dogs when
applicable
Having said that, it is still never
easy to be abused, insulted and threatened in the course of oneís
duty. But with training and cooperation between officers, even
this part of the PMOís job can be easier.
For further information, click to
see:
ï More about the close-out
situation
In MPM, stress outstrips zoonoses as an OH&S
risk
While zoonoses are a significant
OH&S risk to MPM practitioners, stress is a far greater risk.
We have looked at some ways to counter personal stress related to
difficult people and difficult dogs. In the next chapter, we look
at another source of stress for any MPM practitioner who has a
genuine concern for animals: unwanted
dogs.
1.
Bartlett B. 1992. The depriving face of control in urban animal management. In: Murray RW, editor. Urban Animal Management: proceedings of the First National Conference on Urban Animal Management in Australia (Brisbane, 1992). Mackay QLD: Chiron Media: 70-80.
2.
McHarg M, Baldock C, Headey B, Robinson A. 1995. National People and Pets Survey. Urban Animal Management Coalition.
3.
Newby J. 1996. Man meets dog: surviving and evolving together. In: Hassett S, editor. Urban Animal Management: proceedings of the Fifth National Conference on Urban Animal Management in Australia (Sydney, 1996). Sydney: AVA: 9-17.
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